Thank you, Padre!
With regard to the whole "foul traitor" thing - we have had examples of people accusing others of doing that before. In each case, I have come firmly down on them and said such behavior is unacceptable. A majority of people have agreed with me. Sometimes, packages are lost, "real life" happens, models get damaged (in one case, the spray-varnish misted and the painter had to strip and start again!) etc.
This is supposed to be fun, not an opportunity to be nasty to each other. So, while I cannot promise that a lost package or other calamity will NOT be met with insults from others, I can assure you it will NOT come from me and I will do everything in my power to prevent that from happening.