Thanks for understanding folks. And yep, when a parent is passing away, it is easy for some to have past emotional baggage be effecting their actions in the current. Going to let things go by for a bit, because my father's health improving is what is most important in the immediate future, and then will address the other issue(s) accordingly. Suspect it won't matter how rational and forgiving I am, it isn't going to please a person who has already formed their belief, opinion and memory, yet having another reoccurrence happen, and I take away some of the fuel for their fire now, maybe things like why father's comfort in transport is best handled by professionals, and how cost of such can be paid by me, then perhaps some of the additional stress venting won't occur in my direction again. Perhaps.
