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Offline Fidelis von Sigmaringen

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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3075 on: September 28, 2012, 04:48:50 PM »
Weel, at least, you'll have lots of time to paint models. Maybe there are even some Warhammer gamers over there, you never know. 
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3076 on: September 28, 2012, 10:48:05 PM »
Hey Feanor... rent the Shining before you agree to the job.



Just so you know what happens after a couple months snowbound in a boring hellhole.
if I was alone, yes.  But I would be on an airforce base with 260 people.  So it would probably be more like john carpenters the thing. before the swedish dog showed up.

Weel, at least, you'll have lots of time to paint models. Maybe there are even some Warhammer gamers over there, you never know. 
if my hand doesnt shake too much from the cold, I could totally paint!  :::cheers:::
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« Reply #3077 on: September 28, 2012, 11:06:01 PM »
seems like it would be a good experence for a bt anyway.

Bummed to see your bad news feanor :(
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« Reply #3078 on: October 03, 2012, 04:18:07 AM »
A bunch of workmen from the city descended upon my favorite trail. They're in the process of ruining it by paving it and clearing out the underbrush.

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« Reply #3079 on: October 04, 2012, 06:47:33 PM »
Applying everywhere (including NY city) and have yet to hear from anyone.  Getting anxious as I have 1 more week of employment.  :eusa_wall:

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« Reply #3080 on: October 04, 2012, 06:49:04 PM »
Does that include the job in Greenland?
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3081 on: October 04, 2012, 06:55:02 PM »
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3082 on: October 04, 2012, 08:24:22 PM »
Applying everywhere (including NY city) and have yet to hear from anyone.  Getting anxious as I have 1 more week of employment.  :eusa_wall:

Unless your experience is radically different than mine, it takes at least a few weeks to hear back from most people.  I know it's gonna be tough to be patient in your situation, but that's all you can do.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3083 on: October 04, 2012, 08:56:57 PM »
Actually just got a call back 20 minutes ago from a job I applied for yesterday.  I live in Maryland and the job was in Las Vegas. They asked me if I was willing to relocate and I said I was.  "When could you start?" I told them a couple of weeks after I get the job, to find a place and move there.  They then asked when I could fly out on my own expense.  Wooa Wooaw WOaaaw.  I am not spending money to fly out half way across the country, and put myself up in a hotel on one little interview for a job that I may not even get.  They emailed me the offer letter anyways.  It would have been a $12/hr maximum job for a 4 month contract.  no thank you. I am willing to relocate but not for a temporary job that doesnt even pay enough for me to live there.

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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3084 on: October 04, 2012, 09:22:53 PM »
Hey, you get tips too.

Well good strippers do.  :)

Sorry, couldn't resist.
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« Reply #3085 on: October 04, 2012, 09:49:19 PM »
Hey, you get tips too.

Well good strippers do.  :)

Sorry, couldn't resist.
maybe I could be a male escort at the bunny ranch while im out there...  :engel:
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3086 on: October 05, 2012, 04:33:49 AM »
Hey, you get tips too.

Well good strippers do.  :)

Sorry, couldn't resist.
maybe I could be a male escort at the bunny ranch while im out there...  :engel:

As long as you understand that most of your ... 'clients' ... would be closeted gay men unwilling to come out to their families, therefore indulging in their lusts in a place they can trust to be discrete.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3087 on: October 05, 2012, 06:08:48 AM »
Hey, you get tips too.

Well good strippers do.  :)

Sorry, couldn't resist.
maybe I could be a male escort at the bunny ranch while im out there...  :engel:

As long as you understand that most of your ... 'clients' ... would be closeted gay men unwilling to come out to their families, therefore indulging in their lusts in a place they can trust to be discrete.


You seem to be quite well informed. One cannot help but wonder why....
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3088 on: October 05, 2012, 07:08:16 AM »
Hey, you get tips too.

Well good strippers do.  :)

Sorry, couldn't resist.
maybe I could be a male escort at the bunny ranch while im out there...  :engel:

As long as you understand that most of your ... 'clients' ... would be closeted gay men unwilling to come out to their families, therefore indulging in their lusts in a place they can trust to be discrete.


You seem to be quite well informed. One cannot help but wonder why....

I've been around.  :unsure:
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #3089 on: October 07, 2012, 12:40:43 PM »
I am incredibly tired in my head

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« Reply #3090 on: October 07, 2012, 03:40:45 PM »
Hey, you get tips too.

Well good strippers do.  :)

Sorry, couldn't resist.
maybe I could be a male escort at the bunny ranch while im out there...  :engel:

As long as you understand that most of your ... 'clients' ... would be closeted gay men unwilling to come out to their families, therefore indulging in their lusts in a place they can trust to be discrete.


You seem to be quite well informed. One cannot help but wonder why....

It's a matter of logistics.  Male escorts get some female clients(grannies) but even weird/ugly/fat women can usually find some poor sap with libido than self-respect. So most gigolos service both genders.
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« Reply #3091 on: October 08, 2012, 04:45:38 AM »
Goalkeeping shorts to not protect your hips sufficiently for landing on concrete.
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« Reply #3092 on: October 08, 2012, 11:04:31 PM »
I've been asked to document a coworker's inability to complete day to day tasks and answer his phone. I'm not firing him, just gathering ammo for the HR guys. But I still feel guilty, especially when I see the pictures of his kids on his desk.

My long-term job goal(librarian) will involve making personnel decisions so I suppose I'll have to get used to things like this. Anyone in HR/management have any insight for me?
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« Reply #3093 on: October 09, 2012, 12:02:17 AM »
Kind of went through something similar about 5-6 months ago.  I too felt bad, but if management knows and the person really isn't doing their job then it's sort of a sad inevitable thing that must be done.  No real insight outside of that.  Sorry.
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« Reply #3094 on: October 09, 2012, 12:18:16 AM »
Did something similar myself a few years ago.  For the record though, she was a terrible employee.When things get bus she had a habit to have to go to the bathroom. Now I know it sounds like "well maybe she did?' and if it was only once or twice sure, but it was every time.  Also she didnt know what she was doing and had to keep asking the guy we hired months after her for help on every single call.
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« Reply #3095 on: October 09, 2012, 12:23:42 AM »
I've been asked to document a coworker's inability to complete day to day tasks and answer his phone. I'm not firing him, just gathering ammo for the HR guys. But I still feel guilty, especially when I see the pictures of his kids on his desk.

My long-term job goal(librarian) will involve making personnel decisions so I suppose I'll have to get used to things like this. Anyone in HR/management have any insight for me?

You are taking the right early steps.  Document failure to perform.  While you do that, take a look around and make sure you are treating him fairly.  If there are others acting similarly, document them too.

When you have a solid case, take it to HR.  And then be prepared to be told that it's not enough and they will have you build a new list.  From that you (with HR) can march through progressive discipline.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressive_discipline

Get out the employee manual/supervisor policies that apply and learn them.  Follow the rules.

End the end, I find that people who fail on this level either...

Are incapable of working and wander from job to job.

Are temporarily not doing well.  It might get better in a week or long after they leave you.

Some have never been taught/learned how to work.  You might be able to train them when they are motivated enough to learn.

People who hate their job.  They will never be happy/good until they find something they like.  You may not be able to provide that.

Evil bastard who will make your life hell.  yea, they are out there and as one speaker said for the evil type bring money and lawyers.  They are the only fix.

Ultimately don't spend a lot of time worrying about what the problem is.  Just work the system and that will give him/her plenty of opportunity to fix it.  Most of the time they will figure out what is happening ahead of time and leave instead of getting fired.   Only the dense stay to the bitter end.
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« Reply #3096 on: October 09, 2012, 12:49:52 AM »
HR asked me to do this. I don't normally take that kind of initiative. I can only hope he's being warned that things need to change. I did fire a shot across his bow by asking -my- boss to call him when he wouldn't answer my calls one night. Yeah, it sucks when people from work are trying to call you on Friday night but the server room he is responsible for was 83 degrees.  :icon_evil:

But yeah, it sucks when people get fired but you guys are right. It's better for a person in the long run if they're made aware of what they're doing wrong and find a job more compatible with their skills/personality.
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« Reply #3097 on: October 09, 2012, 02:45:41 AM »
Learn how to motivate the good employees (most of the time just get out of the way after providing direction), get rid of the bad and hire good people and you will be invaluable to your employer.
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« Reply #3098 on: October 09, 2012, 06:39:13 AM »
Hell yeah!

My first personal law suit against the fucking veterinarians who killed my beloved friend - you ain't getting a dime and I am determined to ass blast you all over the place (animals have few rights but there are other ways to stir up trouble).

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« Reply #3099 on: October 09, 2012, 09:55:07 AM »
Shadow is this the first time you've posted about this? I went back a few pages but I didn't see any posts from you.

I heard a story in the news a few weeks ago about a person who took their dog to the vet to have a checkup and it was put down.  F*cking bad administrative error.
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