2012 collected items..
januari - my mom in a far gone state of alzheimer got diagnosed with amonia and no antibiotics for her, we prepare for the worst.. eventually she gets over it and we all wait until the next time...
januari - father in law gets news that he has sown out lungcancer and together with his untreatable lungfybrosis it can't be treated anymore without to high risk.
july - my eldest daughter came to live with us due to some circumstances with her mother (my ex-wife), since then living with 3 kids here. Problematic going on with eachother the first month between the eldest.
july - getting a new work assignment halfway across the country (3 hours per day in the car on travel time)
then when things finally seem to go at easy
november
Father in law has more and more difficulty getting around and has ste some goals in december and start of january that he still wants to see (Sinterklaas, Xmas dinner on the first xmasday and the bday of his youngest grandchild january 2nd.
december
- 23rd - father in law get hospitalized getting harder and harder to breathe
- 24th - partner of my ex-wife suddenly dies in his sleep (stepfather to our eldest 2 daugthers of 7 and 10), took the other 2 kids in house for the day.
- 28th - While I was at work my neighbour and my partner decided to go out to the market with the kids and had a carcrash, nothing bad luckily but the car was a right off (neighbours car) but multiple doctor visits and 1 dentist visit was needed.
- 28th - father in law together with docters decides to end it with sleeping aid and then off the oxygen, he still lives for another 24 hours.
- 29th - 21.15 father in law dies.
- 30th - kids got opportunity to paint the casket of the partner of my exwife
january (as we see it a closure for a bad 2012)
- 2nd - cremation of the partner of my exwife
- 3rd - another painting of a casket by all the grandchildren
- 4th - today cremation of my father in law
Lets hope 2013 will be a better year (I already said that my mother isn't allowed to go this year and needs to wait till atleast 2014 now..)