Ugh, can stand hearing stuff like that, and hope it all goes well Feanor.
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So ... another relationship got sucked up in the big void where such things go. I've conducted myself in this situation in a way that is better than ever before, yet it just goes to show, a person can do all the right things to shield one's self from another person's stress while providing support, yet some folks can't help attempting to get caught up in their emotional drama. Thank goodness I discovered this was the path being taken now and not later. Saved myself a lot of hassle further down the line.
I was prepared to wait until the time in about a month and a half when most of her stressors might possibly be less, and see if things had improved then. However, there was this constant pull of negativity, particularly about not allowing her to stay at my place until she could get into her new place. And when there was this constant flow of conscious lines of crud given to me over why she was leaving, and other accusations, blame, and statements of disrespect and irrationality, I felt relieved when it came to an end. God bless her, keep her safe, and keep her far away from me.
In the last 4 plus years I've dated 8 different ladies. 4 in 2014, a fouling out with foul balls. Took a year off in 2015, painted a ton. From 2016 to 2017 saw 3, all longer in length than 2014, and none could get out of their own way. First part of this year there was so much positiveness, and then it did a freaky 180 degree turn into too much negativity and increased stress from poor time management and emotional self turmoil. She did me a favor, although thinking it would help solve her time issues when none of the stressors will completely disappear moving forward. She's all mixed up, stressed, and making some unhealthy choices.
As for me, going to keep the positive flow of personal and professional projects moving forward, find a new lady while keeping relationships with friends and family flowing, and continue to move my life forward.
