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Offline Walt von Ark

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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2675 on: May 03, 2012, 09:23:19 AM »
thanks you're right of course, I know. Been down this road before...
It just sucks, even though it's an exeptable ending to a relationship, doesnt make it easy to do!

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« Reply #2676 on: May 03, 2012, 02:32:26 PM »
It just sucks, even though it's an exeptable ending to a relationship, doesnt make it easy to do!

I hear that, 100%.  Best of luck with it, man.
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« Reply #2677 on: May 03, 2012, 09:13:58 PM »
Better now than in 5 years like my mate did, twice. Shouldn't have taken him that long, those poor women didn't deserve to be strung along while he wallowed in indecision. You're doing the right thing being honest early.

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« Reply #2678 on: May 04, 2012, 03:23:50 PM »
Being on the receiving end of my ex-girlfriend having the same kind of indecision a few weeks ago I'd say go for it, it's definitely unfair to the other party in the relationship to be strung out for too long. It was much better she told me sooner so it didn't get too out of hand...
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2679 on: May 04, 2012, 03:44:46 PM »
Relationships that are not good early rarely get better over time.

Throw the stinky fish out, it's good for both of you.
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Offline oak_prince

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« Reply #2680 on: May 04, 2012, 05:28:22 PM »
Girls usually just go for it if they like you.

Got one friend who is being put through a lenghty audition process, another who is buying into the "not ready for another relationship yet" line, and one whose beau hasn't wanted to see him in-person for five months. And I'm a bad guy for pointing out the obvious.

Everyone likes to think their situation is totally unique, but it's usually a matter of one person not liking the other. Occam's razor, people.
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« Reply #2681 on: May 04, 2012, 05:59:15 PM »
Occam takes a nap when emotions are involved.
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« Reply #2682 on: May 04, 2012, 06:10:40 PM »
Occam takes a nap when emotions are involved.
That, or they use the wrong end the the razor...
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2683 on: May 04, 2012, 07:56:31 PM »
Looks like another 50-hour workweek for me this week.  Because the part-timers that are supposed to fill the gaps in the schedule never want to work.  The same part-timers who always complaint that they never get any hours.   :eusa_wall: :eusa_wall: :eusa_wall:

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Offline Walt von Ark

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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2684 on: May 04, 2012, 08:18:37 PM »
Cheers guy's
It's not that the relationship is bad and it's a sweet girl.
i'm just not feeling what she obviously does feel!
anyway's i guess i'm gonna have that talk with her next week....joy!

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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2685 on: May 05, 2012, 02:40:19 AM »
A bunch of high school kids drove up to a party down the street.  They are walking around with beers.  In a couple hours they will get back in their cars and drive off.  I hate some idiot parents.
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« Reply #2686 on: May 05, 2012, 10:07:42 PM »
A friend asked me what I thought happened after you die. I would have answered a bit less briskly if I'd known he was seriously ill and going to undergo surgery in a couple weeks.
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« Reply #2687 on: May 06, 2012, 08:01:32 PM »
A friend asked me what I thought happened after you die. I would have answered a bit less briskly if I'd known he was seriously ill and going to undergo surgery in a couple weeks.

What did you tell him?
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« Reply #2688 on: May 06, 2012, 08:11:59 PM »
I had to fire a kid yesterday.  There was a miscommunication with when he was supposed to work, and when he came in late I pointed out that he came in at the wrong time - it would have been no big deal, but he walked out and I was too busy to chase after him.  A little while later his older sister came in and in a very loud voice told me how she thought I was running my business all wrong and that she could apparently run it much better since it is so easy to run. I nearly punched a girl in the face right there. Then I found out the kid told her that I said he was fired and to get out - which I did not. This is the second time this kid has thought he's been fired and a woman from his household has come to tell us how they feel about it. So it went from something that was no big deal that I was going to let go with a shrug, to a phone call telling him this wasn't working out.

On the plus side we've done half the sales in one week that we would normally do in a month! Of course I'm pretty much dead on my feet right now.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2689 on: May 06, 2012, 08:30:16 PM »
A friend asked me what I thought happened after you die. I would have answered a bit less briskly if I'd known he was seriously ill and going to undergo surgery in a couple weeks.

What did you tell him?

I told him that in all likelihood your consciousness will dissolve. It will be like before you were born.

But I did add the caveat that I've seen enough weirdness(recurring dreams that came true, a friend's house that felt very haunted) that I haven't completely written off the idea that there's something more.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2690 on: May 07, 2012, 12:17:54 PM »
Pretty random unhappy thought...

Got a new boss at work, and she is flexing her power muscle.  Which makes life more difficult for me.  But, meh.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2691 on: May 07, 2012, 02:05:27 PM »
New bosses can be hell. Having worked on several projects you sometimes have changing project leadership (in case of set-backs), they always feel a need to confirm their power the first few months.

Even worse, interim managers, universally despised and rightly so IMNSHO.
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« Reply #2692 on: May 07, 2012, 03:14:01 PM »
Even worse, interim managers, universally despised and rightly so IMNSHO.
Yeah, but those are brought in specifically to be the bad guy.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2693 on: May 07, 2012, 04:26:43 PM »
I don't think the girl I fancy feels the same way about me.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2694 on: May 07, 2012, 04:41:35 PM »
I don't think the girl I fancy feels the same way about me.
You won't know for sure until you ask her (out)!

But yeah, been there, done that. Plenty of times.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2695 on: May 07, 2012, 04:54:05 PM »
I don't think the girl I fancy feels the same way about me.

I thought he should act responsibly and just kill himself.

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« Reply #2696 on: May 07, 2012, 05:02:56 PM »
I don't think the girl I fancy feels the same way about me.



Good idea, although I prefer the old fashioned way of clubbing her senseless and dragging her to my cave.
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« Reply #2697 on: May 07, 2012, 05:11:06 PM »
Bosses: The worst is when they flex their power by doing the -opposite- of what their underlings suggest, just on principle(unless you're devious enough to trick them with reverse psychology...  :icon_twisted:).

Kenny's ladyfriend: Just make a move. You'll know exactly where you stand. Don't try to cultivate a friendship first or ask mutual acquaintances to sniff around. That never helps. Who dares wins.
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« Reply #2698 on: May 07, 2012, 05:21:40 PM »
Kenny's ladyfriend: Just make a move. You'll know exactly where you stand. Don't try to cultivate a friendship first or ask mutual acquaintances to sniff around. That never helps. Who dares wins.

Lol, too late for that, we've already been friends for over a year... or is it longer? Man, I think I'm completely losing the grip of time here, feels like I finished elementary school yesterday.
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Re: Unhappy Random thoughts...
« Reply #2699 on: May 07, 2012, 09:01:07 PM »
Rovers officially relegated. :icon_sad:
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