Remember the server is a work in progress, so ideas, suggestions and comments are welcome.
I consider discord an active/inactive way of communications.
You can post like in the forums in the test/media channels and people can read/react/comment at their own time.
If you want to talk/video calls with others you can join a voice channel and see if someone hops in.
Some people will appear online a lot but are not there because they just let discord start with the machine or they are playing games or on other servers. Do not take it personally if they don't join you on the voice chats
If there is enough interest we can do an introduction pin to discord server rules, what you can do, you should not do and was is polite/impolite.